I remember being at a business training session some time ago with Jamie McIntyre as the trainer and before we got started, Jamie asked everyone, ‘What do you enjoy doing?’
I couldn’t really answer. I was a wife and mother of four and of course I enjoyed being with my family but Jamie wanted more than that. He wanted to know what I enjoyed doing for me. I couldn’t understand why that was so hard to answer. It wasn’t just me though, there were others that couldn’t come up with much of a list.
We finally came to the conclusion that we had blocked out the things we enjoyed because we just didn’t have room for them in our lives. We either didn’t have enough time or money to enjoy them.
Is that how life is supposed to be?
Well everyone at that training session decided it wasn’t. If we wanted to increase our earning ability, not just a little but really increase it, we had to have a good reason. So that became our first task, to have some fun and work out what we really enjoyed doing.
Jamie explained that often when people have trouble with this it can be easier to start with all the things we don’t enjoy. So we began writing a list of all the things in our lives that caused us to feel angry, stressed, frustrated, fearful, dissatisfied or that we absolutely hated doing. As we did this we began to notice our feelings and how strongly we felt about not having those things in our life anymore.
Once we got through this list it was a lot easier to think of what our hearts really desired in our lives, what made us happy and fulfilled, what energised and motivated us and how we felt about not having them in our lives. The whole point of the excercise was to work out why these things weren’t a part of our lives and decide what we needed to do to change that.
At that training session we learnt that being motivated to create wealth in your life often offers some very important side benefits. Creating wealth is not just about earning more money it’s about having a better, more fulfilling and balanced life. Often the reason most people don’t live more financially fulfilling lives is because they have given up on, or never had, a reason why. They have forgotten what they really enjoy.
So let me ask you. ‘What do you enjoy’?
Have a Day you Enjoy
Teresa and the Team at
Tags: creating wealth, financial freedom, Jamie McIntyre, Wealth Creation
