Posts Tagged ‘goal setting’

Getting the Most out of Your Goals

Saturday, March 6th, 2010

More and more people are becoming aware of the need to have goals in many areas of their lives but it is a good idea to refresh what you know and check you are on track.

This week I have been going over some lessons in Og Mandino’s book University of Success, while reading the lesson on goals I realised I didn’t have it all covered. Goal setting is about programming yourself for success and even though we may all be aware of goal setting we may not be putting it to good enough use in our lives.

Goal setting helps you plan for a better future, without a goal and therefore a destination to head for you could end up anywhere. Where do you want to be in the future – in a week, a month, a year, five or ten years? Goals can also be used in more than just your career. Goals should also cover what you want to achive in relationships with your partner, your friends and your children.

  • Setting goals in your area of income will help you achive financial security and a lifestyle you enjoy.
  • Setting goals in your marriage could keep your relationship alive and add a greater depth of meaning and love.
  • Setting goals in the area of children – this may be one you haven’t considered beyond giving them an education. Many parent / child relationships break down in the teenage years because no clear goals have been thought about for the kind of relationship you want with your child or parent. A lot of emotional heartache can be avoided if this is considered and discussed.
  • If you are single you may want to plan and set goals to find a fulfilling life relationship. It has been said that people tend to put more time and effort into buying a car than into choosing the person to spend their life with.
  • Setting goals in the area of friendship will help to keep these relationships strong and meaningful, without them you may find your friendships are shallow and superficial.

Some of these may give cause for thought…

  • How is your life at work going?
  • Are you where you want to be, what can you do?
  • How is your relationship with your spouse, can you do more?
  • How are your relstionships with your children, your friends?
  • Do they feel how much you value them?
  • How is your day to day existence, could it be better?

Be imaginative and creative in your ideas on how to enhance, improve or change anything in these areas of your life.

Our lives should not just be an existence they should, for as long as we live and beyond, be a creation.

Have an Inspiring Day

Teresa and the Team at

AustraliaWealth.com.au

If I Had My Life To Live Over – by Erma Bombeck

Tuesday, March 2nd, 2010

I thought I would share something different with you today, it made me think more carefully about myself and how I live my life. We must constantly check with ourselves, that what we are doing everyday with our lives is still in tune with our values and the things that really matter.

If I Had My Life to Live Over

I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren’t there for the day.

I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.

I would have talked less and listened more.

I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.

I would have eaten the popcorn in the’good’ living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.

I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.

I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.

I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.

I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains.

I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.

I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn’t show soil or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.

Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I’d have cherished every moment and realised that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.

When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, “Later. Now go get washed up for dinner.” There would have been more “I love you’s.” More “I’m Sorry’s.”

But mostly given another shot at life, I would seize every minute…look at it and really see it, live it and never give it back. Stop sweating the small stuff.

Don’t worry about who doesn’t like you, who has more, or who’s doing what.

Instead, let’s cherish the relationship we have with those who do love us.

Let’s think about what God HAS blessed us with. And what we are doing each day to promote ourselves mentally, physically, emotionally.

I hope you all have a blessed day.

by Erma Bombeck

Erma wrote this after she found out she was dying from cancer. It may have been too late for Erma to live the kind of life she saw as more fulfilling and worthwhile, don’t let it be too late for you.

There are so many ways to invest in life with your enthusiasm, your gratitude, your energy. So many ways to create wealth so you can live financially free. Keep striving to promote yourself you have gifts within you, share them with the world.

I hope this short note from Erma will encourage you to examine where you are and choose a path that will lead you to a greater life, lived.

Have an Awesome Day

Teresa and the Team at

AbsoluteWealth.com.au

Results, Purpose, Action – RPA

Sunday, February 21st, 2010

Results, Purpose, Action (RPA) is a strategy Jamie McIntyre has implemented and now teaches to ensure that once a person’s dreams and goals have been established they have a system to turn them into reality.

The RPA Planning Process is a proven system for taking anything you can envision and making it real. It teaches you how to organise and think clearer thereby turning your thoughts into positive action instead of a muddling, overwhelming chaos.

The process is broken down into three steps:-

Step 1 -

Result – Ask yourself – “What do I want from this situation – what do I want my result to be?” Result is the R in RPA so be sure you ask yourself what you want the result to be not “What should I do” but “What result am I committed to achieving?”

Until you are clear on the result you want any ‘to do’ lists or plans will not be enough to motivate you to action.

The second step is:-

Purpose – Ask yourself – “Why do I want that result – what is my purpose”? To achieve anything successfully there must be a ‘why’ a compelling purpose or reason something that will keep you going in spite of setbacks. Without a reason then giving up is easy,
there isn’t a lot we do without a reason. So find your purpose and be specific and clear about it.

The third step -

Action – Ask yourself – “What action do I need to take to achieve the result I want”? So once you know what you want your result to be and why you are committed to achieving it you are then in a state of mind to begin creating an action plan.

The sequence for stepping towards success in achieving your goals and dreams always begins with the end in mind. You must be totally clear about the result you want, then be able to build a burning reason to achieve it before you can decide the action you need to take and have the commitment to follow it through.

Have a Productive Day

Teresa and the Team at

AustraliaWealth.com.au

You Don’t Need Approval to Drive a White Mercedes

Monday, February 8th, 2010

How do you feel about creating  wealth or becoming successful? Do you get excited by the thought? Do you feel its something you can achieve? …Or…

Do you have a nagging voice in your head telling you over and over, you can’t do it, you don’t deserve it, are you worried about what people will think or some other irrational reason?

It has taken me a long time to put a muzzle on my nagging voice. I have dreamed the dreams, I have goal set, I have recited affirmations but still wealth eluded me.

But not anymore, I have given up being worried about stepping out of my comfort zone, there really is no comfort there just numbness and dellusion.

I have given up looking at successful people wishing that was me. I have come to realise that success is about knowing what it takes and then just doing it. It is really that simple. It may take you a month, it may take you a year, it may take you ten years to reach the goal you set yourself but reach it you will, if you know what you have to do and do it.

There are many paths you can take that will lead you to success, pick one that’s right for you and follow it. If you love it you’ll keep doing it.

It is important that you choose something that you are passionate about to be successful at. Love will conquer most things in this world including your fear of success, so love what you do.

You don’t have to have everyone agreeing with you, or believing in you, you don’t need approval to pursue a dream.

You do need a reason ‘why’ you want it. You do need to know what it’s going to take, what you need to do. Then you just need to do it.

Have an amazing day

Teresa and the Team at

AustraliaWealth.com.au